This Should Be Basic Redt-iquette

Dear everyone who wants to redt a shidduch,

 

That’s very nice of you. Please, when you email or text someone for their shidduch resume, remember to introduce yourself (unless you are in touch on a regular basis), provide some background/context (such as how you got their contact information, or why you thought of them), and let them know where you are sending their resume. It is very kind to try and set people up, but try to keep this process dignified and respectful. It can feel violating to have one’s resume asked for and sent around casually. Don’t assume everyone who is single is just thrilled to share it.

 

Please also respect your client’s gatekeeping if they don’t want you to send their resume somewhere. And it’s their business why — please be mindful of the person you are trying to help.

 

Thank you!