You Are Trying Hard Enough To Get Married

This week Mishpacha printed a LifeLines story and aaargh I read it and ask myself why? Probably should have quit while I was ahead but I didn’t so here’s a new post.   In all fairness, every person is fully entitled to share their story, and the story itself is fairly innocuous. It’s basically one young man’s account of his …

On Receiving Criticism

I just found a response by Debbie Greenblatt to the piece Mishpacha printed from my post, “The Third Option.”   To ‘Name Withheld’: While I laud your perspective of rising above the fray to ‘choose you’, a more valid Torah-based approach would be to choose what Hashem would like of you in this difficult situation, as best as you can …

My Response to the “Why Risk Shidduchim?” Discussion in Mishpacha

Hi, all. Happy zos Chanukah.   I have to start off with a confession: at this point, I’m all-in as a Mishpacha reader — so many fires to put out…   Several weeks ago, the magazine ran an essay written by a single woman. The gist of it was that just as idealistic young women will abandon the chinuch field …

The Third Option

At a shalosh seudos this past Shabbos, someone (who knows I have Many Opinions on Things) exclaimed, “You have to read the Open Mic article from this week’s Mishpacha!” Immediately, some others at the table began protesting that I’d only find it upsetting. So I insisted on reading it, of course.   To summarize, the author writes that just as …

Just Saying

Wouldn’t you know, I almost never read magazines but this Shabbos I was visiting a friend and on her couch was a copy of Family First. I’m glad I picked it up because it had not one but two articles of interest to me.   First of all…did you read that article about therapeutic writing and Journal to the Self?? …

My Response to “The Exit Interview”

Ok, I’m very late to the party here but we have to talk about the greatest piece of writing ever published in Calligraphy. (To be honest, I’m not usually a magazine reader so I’m wholly unqualified to make that statement…but anyway.)   On Erev Pesach, my friend texted me that if I had the Mishpacha I had to read Rikki …

Vulnerability

I’m dashing off this post because I just read Sara Eisemann’s MatchQuest column in this week’s Family First, and the question and answer were so phenomenally on-target, I had to share. (The entire text is available through the above link.)   I know that most of what I talk about on this blog is not actual dating or the process …

My Response To “The Gardenia”

I read a short story printed in this past week’s Family First, “The Gardenia,” by Shayna Friedman. My younger sister (also shidduch-age) read it first, and she wasn’t sure if I should because it made her so sad. (Well, I did anyway). Briefly: the story is a vignette about a (self-described) older single who goes to the wedding of a …

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