This week I went to a wedding for the first time in months and months. The chosson was my cousin who used to come to us for Shabbos meals almost every week when he was in beis medrash, and we were very close. This was one of those couples that were both marrying their first — both just back from …
I found a helpful little podcast called Small Things Often, a collection of short clips (under 5 minutes) based on relationship research from the Gottman Institute. Each clip includes a mini-lesson and an exercise. I’m finding some of them to be really thought-provoking. Hope you enjoy this resource!
This week I listened to a free lecture series by JOWMA, the Jewish Orthodox Women’s Medical Association. I thought I’d recap a bit of what was presented as far as it related to single women. This is by no means comprehensive, nor is it medical advice and should not take the place of having a conversation with your doctor. However, …
Hi, everyone. I hope you’re doing well. Continuing on with our series on mindful dating: shidduch research, everyone’s favorite activity. In this post I’ll give a few practical suggestions but mostly I’ll focus on you and your feelings during the research stage of a shidduch. So as with any aspect of shidduchim, getting a guy’s resume and going …
Okaaay, folks! We’re back in business. Over the next few weeks, I am be”H going to be working on a series of posts on mindful dating. I brainstormed a list of topics about the stress and anxiety of the shidduch process, and I’m hoping to address them all in this series. You might relate to some or all or none …
This semester, I decided to audit a class called Creative Arts in Social Work because doesn’t that sound like fun? I didn’t have to pay tuition for the course, just a small registration fee and then to show up to the class and complete the work as if I was a real student. I had my eye on Creative Arts …
I don’t enjoy coconut-flavored anything. So over the years when I saw recipes that called for coconut milk, I just skipped. Because I don’t like coconut. Then, a few months ago, my friend asked if I could taste a dish she had cooked. It was chicken penne in a cream sauce made with…coconut milk. So I said, “Oh, it looks …
Chodesh tov! After the whirlwind of the past few weeks, it’s Cheshvan — time to pull out the sweaters and hunker down for a nice, long stretch of routine. It occurs to me that Cheshvan is a great time to sit down with a steaming cup of tea and a notebook and figure out how to actualize the insights …
Hi, everyone! I hope you had a good Y”T. Traditionally we wish each other a “good winter” after Succos. So, good winter to you 🙂 . A few years ago I wrote a list of things to do for yourself in the winter and I just did #4: buy something that makes your life easier. I finally bought …
My friend was trying to borrow a succah for the upcoming Y”T (as her plans changed due to COVID) and finally declared, “I’m going to stop asking around and just buy myself a succah. I need some stability.” I couldn’t resist. “If it’s stability you’re after, you should definitely buy a succah. Now there’s a real symbol of permanence.” …
